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Slow down. Check the signs. Stay safer.

OUR MISSIONHelp people who date online spot scam patterns, protect their privacy, and know what to do if something goes wrong.

Calm, practical safety help — warning signs, privacy checks, meeting plans, and what to do if money or information was shared.

Group Sessions — learn together

Small, friendly groups on spotting warning signs, dating safely, and support after a scam. Join one or propose your own.

Safety first

If you are in danger, call 911. If you sent money, call your bank right away, then report at ReportFraud.ftc.gov and ic3.gov. DatingScamReady never investigates or accuses a real person and cannot tell you whether someone is genuine.

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THIS PAGEAll of DatingScamReady at a glance, organized by topic.

Everything in DatingScamReady on one page. Look for it yourself, or ask the AI Specialist where to find it.

Free safety tools that work today

THIS PAGESpot the signs, protect yourself, and know what to do if it happened.

Slow down. You are in charge. No email, no sign-up. Three boards — tap a board name to jump to it. Print anything you make.

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① Spot the Signs② Protect Yourself③ If It Happened

① Spot the Signs

Spot the Signs

Eight common warning signs, safe replies, and six made-up situations with the safer move.

Group Sessions — learn together

Small, friendly groups on spotting warning signs, dating safely, and support after a scam. Join one or propose your own.

② Protect Yourself

Protect Yourself

A privacy checklist, a profile-consistency worksheet, and a first-meeting plan.

③ If It Happened

If It Happened

Money, reporting, evidence, notes, and support.

Safety first

If you are in danger, call 911. If you sent money, call your bank right away, then report at ReportFraud.ftc.gov and ic3.gov. DatingScamReady never investigates or accuses a real person and cannot tell you whether someone is genuine.

Your case, organized in one private place

THIS PAGEKeep your evidence, track your steps, and build your report.

Take it one step at a time. $19.95 a month plus a $20 one-time setup. Three boards — tap a board name to jump to it. Download your file and bring it back any time. We keep nothing.

Set up once. DatingScamReady does the rest.

Tell DatingScamReady where you are one time. Your summary and file use it.

DatingScamReady never investigates people and never promises to recover money.

① My Case② Protect & Report③ Recover

① My Case

My Case

Evidence in date order, and every request and payment with running totals.

Group Sessions — learn together

Small, friendly groups on spotting warning signs, dating safely, and support after a scam. Join one or propose your own.

② Protect & Report

Protect & Report

Check what you shared, then build a packet for your bank, the app, police, or the FTC and FBI.

③ Recover

Recover

Your steps, your reminders, and one summary page to keep or share.

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