DatingScamReady

Slow down. Check the signs. Stay safer.

What it is

DatingScamReady is a safety and research tool for anyone who meets people online. It teaches the warning signs, gives you safe things to say, and shows exactly what to do, who to tell and what to save if money has already been sent.

Meet Olivia, the DatingScamReady Specialist. Ask Olivia a question in your own words and get an answer in plain language, in text for free and by voice for members. Everything on the page can be read in about 30 languages.

What you can research here

• The eight common warning signs of a dating scam
• Whether a profile adds up, using a consistency worksheet
• What to say when someone asks for money or pushes you to move fast
• How to plan a safe first meeting or video call
• What to do after you've sent money, and how to report it
• Where to find support after a scam

Free tools, ready to use

• 8 Common Warning SignsPatterns that show up again and again in romance scams.
• What to Say — Safe RepliesCalm, short replies you can use when something feels off.
• Situations & Safer MovesSix made-up situations and the lowest-risk move for each.
• Profile Consistency WorksheetNotes on whether a profile and conversation line up.
• First Meeting & Video Call PlanFill in a one-page plan.
• I Sent Money — What Now?Act fast.
• Report ItWhere to report.
• Save the EvidenceKeep proof before blocking or deleting anything.
• Private Incident NotesA worksheet for what happened, in your own words.
• Support & HelpYou are not alone, and it is not your fault.

Members get even more

Members unlock a deeper set of tools, and a personal file you can save and bring back any time. A few of them:

• My Safety Setup
• Private Case & Evidence Organizer
• Communication & Money Log
• Exposure Checklist
• Reporting Packet Builder
• Recovery Task List
• Incident Summary

What you can achieve

• Spot a scam before it costs you
• Keep evidence and a private record of what happened
• Report the right way to the right places
• Recover, and rebuild trust in yourself

DatingScamReady offers general safety information. It is not legal or financial advice.